Being Bored.

So, my wonderful girlfriend Jessica and I's first month together is today.

and this morning, she told me she was glad that i wasn't bored with her yet, which i agree, i'm glad i'm not too.

People talk all the time about not being happy with their relationships. I think the real words of this are, "i'm bored with him/her."

so while explaining in a secret vault i keep somewhere you few readers will never know of, i talked about how i couldn't have the heart to find Jess boring, and i tried to explain why, but then i realized it was just because of who she is.

I don't really think i could find myself getting bored with her. Somehow, i have the weird feeling that i value her personality and see it as this rather peaceful spontaneousity. That doesn't really make sense, but i think in simpler terms; Being in a relationship creates a temporary gravitation to the other person. But with Jessica, i am gravitated naturally, more like a best friend than just a girlfriend. I don't have to change anything about her to make me happy, what is already there makes me happy, flaws and features alike. Basically just the natural being she is. and i'm without a doubt Happier than i've been in a long, long time.

anyways, that wasn't off topic, it has to do with what my point is =p

i think that deep compatability and not "getting bored" go hand in hand. People say that deep compatability that exists after setting is what makes people "right for one another." now, get this like i'm saying "jessica and I are soul mates," there is no way to tell after a month, i'm not insane (or in middle school.)

Basically, if you can go for years without getting bored with someone, it's because that temporary gravity never existed, it was always the natural gravity of personality attractiveness. If you actually like someones personality, they are worth staying with. trying to make a relationship work with. not having to worry on a day to day basis about them leaving you or screwing things up, not having to say sorry for every little thing.

Now i don't believe there isn't more than one person in the world you couldn't spend the rest of your life with. i've seen first hand and example of this, i'm just saying the general compatibility is not so general after all, and it leads to not getting bored in a relationship, which is the key to being happy with someone, because it shows you value them deeper than their skin, you value them for who you are, and so when you think of a happy old couple taking pictures at a canyon, you should probably think of this.

anyways, i know this probably didn't make much sense (like it did in my head,) buuuuuut, i gave it a shot. hahaha.

live life abundantly kids, but make sure you use protection.

-hunter.